逗逼

突然觉得，在中国网上能被大家普遍接受喜爱的公众人物个体就只有一种色号：逗逼。

好像恋爱的年代，认认真真反而太严肃，随时撩起来才拿得起放得下。可是为什么要拿得起放得下？这样才是其实什么都不在乎啊。

记得will有提过，自嘲自贬都是有一定真实基础的：

『At its core self-deprecation stems from a lack of confidence or a mock-lack of confidence if it's a joke, but given how humour often bleeds into reality, it's reasonable to view a lack of confidence as a core here.

Further, when people who are confident take ownership of mistakes, they often apologize for the specific mistake and vow to do better rather than blaming their fundamental nature for being the cause of the problem. Self-deprecation is tied to fundamental self-worth and self-deprecation is one of the ways that sense of self-worth manifests.』

如果身处某个群体让人觉得不自嘲就不安全，好像也不大对。

况且，永远在寻找又永远寻之不得的意义，是哪来的？

意义可都是在乎出来的。